How will you prepare your family for Advent this year? This year Advent begins on Nov 30th. Here are some ideas from the archives of our blog which you can glean from… Also, check your email for our free gift this year for you.
Another great place to look is to search Pinterest for ‘family Advent activities’. Here’s one example I found…
Jesse Tree Advent Calendar
Recently, I’ve begun asking my family at supper times three intentional Qs and you know what?… Kids want to be asked for input and want to share feedback! And their feedback is valuable.
Here’s the bones of it…
It’s based on family togetherness or accountability which breeds healthy dynamics. Why? Because at the heart of it is honour. We seek to honour each other as a family.
How to do a Family Meeting:
Ask these three questions…together…
1. What did we do well (today/this past week)? (Celebrate!)
2. What do we need to work on? (Goal Set)
3. How are we going to do that this week? (Strategize)
Are you paying attention to the wealth of feedback available from your family?
Are you working together with your family at celebrating, goal setting and strategizing?
Give it a go!
Bruce Feiler – TED Talk
Agile Programming for your family
(Not a Christian resource. I don’t agree with everything he says but that’s where I got the family meeting idea.)
One mother emailed me and suggested this as a resource for moms… There’s one for boys and one for girls…
Prayers and Promises for My Little Boy / Girl by Stormie Omartian.
Learn more from the links below…
Prayers and Promises for My Little Boy
Prayers and Promises for My Little Girl
I just came across this post which I wrote in 2008. I’m so delighted that we have become a church who prays more than five minutes a day. :/ I have been deeply moved and impressed by the leaders who have stepped up to pray half-days, and full days in prayer. I have been encouraged by the parents and families who spend time praying for each other. I have been encouraged by the seniors in our church who inspire us younger generation to pray first and do less. That way we get more done in the end because when we pray, God works.
Hearing God’s Voice: Do We Stop To Hear Him? | Ross Road Kids
Merri Ellen :)
My family has been enjoying some bonding time. I wasn’t happy with the way we were treating each other as siblings and feeling like we were getting short with each other as husband and wife. I decided to become more intentional with our opportunities to pray together.
We have been enjoying using prayer cards again after we eat a meal (and are much less cranky), which I had ordered for our church several years ago. They have always been super helpful in finding the words to pray for each other and to pray for our neighborhood and missionaries etc. I realized that we as a family kind of lost this. I love my early morning quiet times and we all each have our quiet times but we lost our intentional family prayer times even though we continue our family devotions before bed using, “Jesus Calling for Kids.”
Here are a few prayer card samples we enjoyed using this morning after our Saturday morning breakfast time. They have enriched our conversation and planted love in our hearts for each other rather then selfishness… (and I see it’s been helping cut down the sibling rivalry…!)
You can order these through http://www.navpress.com and just search for ‘prayer’.
Dads, Moms, I urge you to begin a family prayer time if you haven’t. I’m convinced that spending time in prayer for each other is the best thing a family can do!
30 Second Challenge: Listening to Your Kids
At twenty-six years of age I was eight months pregnant with our fourth child. It seemed like I spent most of my time wiping counters, faces, hands, or bottoms. I often had at least one child clinging to my pant legs, either wanting my attention or just randomly tattling on the others.In the middle of this stage of my life I learned about the 30 second rule from a parenting talk show on the radio. It’s been a while since I was 26, and quite seriously, the fact that I can remember anything from that stage of life is nothing less than miraculous remember … I was pregnant then, so I may not explain the principle exactly as it was taught, but here it is:
Read it all here… Family Life Canada – 30 Second Challenge: Listening to Your Kids.